CC and I have been saying for years that we were going to sale out and move back to the country where we belong, but we kept putting it off for this reason and that reason. Lately, my health has become such that putting it off is no longer an option. We have to get out of the rat race and move to a more laid back life. We’ve had some concerns about uprooting BG, but in the end we don’t think it is really going to be a bad thing. Let’s face it, we’ll all be much happier when she’s got more room to run around. There is going to be some adjustment, but honestly there isn’t one of us that this move isn’t going to help.
We’ve put the house on the market and despite the fact that we’re in the process of sorting and packing, it will start being shown today. I’m embarrassed for people to see it looking like it does, but who knew we had so much crap! I mean, I knew we had a lot of stuff we didn’t need, but this is ridiculous.
I’ve found shoes that wouldn’t have fit BG last year and the worst part? She never wore them! They were in a box full of clothes that we were waiting for her to grow into. We never even opened the box when any of it would fit her. In our defense, she has a grandmother that sends several boxes of clothes every month. Still no excuse.
We also have a lot of duplicates. We have them because this one doesn’t do this very well, but it is great for this and so on. For a laugh, I took a moment and looked at what a good one would cost that did all these things well. I wasn’t laughing. For the price I spent on all the cheap ones, I could have had one good one that did everything well. I know exactly how it happens. I see the price of the quality item and quell. Instead, I buy the cheap one and when I get it home, I’m not happy with how it does this or that. Then I go out and spend more money for one that says it fixing that problem. The only problem with that is that is doesn’t do something else as well as the first one, so I wind up keeping both of them. If I had just spent the money in the first place, I could have had one that did everything well. I know, you know what I’m talking about. I didn’t use an actual item in this example because there were too many of them.
The whole process would be too depressing, if it were not for the fact that getting rid of the crap is such a relief. You literally feel like you’ve shed actual physical weight. This feeling of relief made me realize that all those self-help and organization gurus are absolutely correct; having less is more freeing.
What this means for us moving forward boils down to several key points.
- Assess everything that we want to bring into the house for function and quality.
- Assess everything we have on a regular basis to see if it is still relevant to our lives.
- Change our mindset of more being better. (Quality beats quantity.)
The thing that I’ve learned from this is that spring cleaning is not a joke. It is important in this day and age to assess constantly. We, as a society, live in houses that are so much bigger than what we really need that we accumulate stuff we don’t need. Let me explain. There are three of us and we’ve been living in (half of) a 1700 square foot house. Half of that total is downstairs. Do you know how much we actually used downstairs? Two rooms; one was the laundry room and the other was filled with our books. We’ve gotten rid of no less than three huge boxes of books just because we don’t read them, they aren’t that good, and we don’t want to move them. That’s sad. We’ve had those books for at least the three years we’ve lived here and we don’t even want them!
So let’s look at the math. Assuming that the library and the laundry room take up half of the basement, that’s about 425 square feet. Add that to the upstairs that we actually use and you come up with 1275 square feet. That’s not that big of a house by American standards. CC and I discussed it and what we came to realize is that if we had more land outside out house, we’d spend more time outside, which means you could probably shave even more off that number.
Smaller house – less money spent. Less crap – less money spent. Less money spent – less money needed. Less money needed – more options for everything! Think about it! If you didn’t have to pay for all that crap that you really don’t use or want, would you still have to work as hard? Would you be able to live on the income from the job that you’d really enjoy, but maybe doesn’t pay as much as you currently need? Could you cut back to part-time? How much (in money and other stuff) is your lifestyle costing you? Do you really love it that much?